Sex positive means to not have judgement on sexual acts of others or yourself for that matter. It means celebrating people’s differences and similarities and promotes an open attitude towards sexual experiences between people. There are many ways you can show a sex positive attitude on the chat lines and this blog will give some suggestions on ways to do so.
If you are speaking with someone on the phone that has a different background or culture than you, it’s time to celebrate it! By celebrating different cultures and people, we can become a closer gay community that is prideful and positive about others.
It’s also good to get STD checks and know your status. Knowing your status means knowing if you have HIV or if you do not. By knowing, you can take the right steps to help you in the future. You can also help others on the chat lines that may be afraid to get tested. Knowledge is power and the more you have of it the more you can do to make a better situation for yourself and others.
Learn to be judgement free. Sometimes it’s hard when someone is into something you either never heard about before or you just don’t like. Try your best to understand that just because it isn’t your cup of tea, doesn’t mean it’s wrong. Learn more about whatever it is and learn how to accept people for who they are and what they desire.
Know yourself and your limitations. By having personal guidelines when it comes to sexual phone play, you know what you are available for and what you are not. This can help you should a situation on the phone come up that you are not comfortable with. Just tell the person on the other end, what you feel and what your limitations are. If it isn’t a good fit on the chat lines, you can also simply end the call. You can always redial the chat line number to speak with a new guy.